(05:29:34) You feel a disturbance in the force... (05:29:36) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: good morning :) (05:29:44) Tim Clark: morning (05:32:44) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: hows you (05:33:30) Tim Clark: not so good, you? (05:34:55) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: hmm whats wrong? (05:37:00) Tim Clark: bad few weeks, and my gregynog presentation isnt going to well (05:39:10) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: anything i can help with? (05:40:42) Tim Clark: you probabbly cant help with the gregynog resentation or the fact i have the emotional maturity of a 15 year old (05:41:43) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: well at least thats better than the emotional maturity of a muffin. Whats happened? i dont think your immature (05:44:59) Tim Clark: once again proved that i am condemned to be single forever (05:47:06) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: thats strong words and inaccurate- well, you know better than i do but if you were condemned surely you would deserve it or something as in been found guilty? (05:48:24) Tim Clark: im just generally good at shooting myself in the foot (05:51:02) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: maybe wood for trees moment? kinda feels like it but its not- most of the scientific breakthroughs were results of initially perceived mistakes (and cornflakes weirdly enough) (05:53:19) Tim Clark: ? (05:54:10) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: i mean that it feels like somethings gone wrong but maybe it hasnt- not too clear sorry (05:54:38) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: but... random hugs (05:54:53) Tim Clark: heh (05:56:04) Tim Clark: every time i find someone attractive something (nearly)always goes wrong, usually through my own stupid fault (05:58:38) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: but how do you know its your fault for sure, cos arguments and things have two sides (this may be completely rubbish atm) (05:59:32) Tim Clark: failure through inaction and social ineptness (06:00:29) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: failures and inaction can be resolved, second chances etc (06:02:18) Tim Clark: A likes B, B doesnt notice because A doesnt make it obvious, B goes out with C, A fails (06:04:30) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: hmm that actually happens a lot in life...unhelpful but B can stop going out with C and then A can approach B and hence the second chancing begins? (06:05:06) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: hmm could be mucked up if A appraoches B before they stop going out with C but not always (06:06:45) Tim Clark: A is good friends with B and C and they figure out how A feels (06:08:25) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: then its up to B and C to call the shots- i have heard of B's and C's being awful or B's anyways but thats usually cos they like them as in school yard i like you when you kick someone and run away (06:08:46) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: but its complicated and requires more hugs uber stregnth ones (06:10:26) Tim Clark: conundrum, A wants to be happy, B makes A happy, A also wants B and C to be happy, logic fail (06:12:28) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: and theres no way the letters could get all snuggled together like BAC or some similar mixture? polyamory and bisexuality helps in this case but can be uber difficult but i know quite a few ppl who overcome the logic fail this way (06:13:54) Tim Clark: the idea has crossed my mind, but its unlikely, current suggestions from B and C is find D (06:15:11) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: ah true- there are other letters in the alphabet. but doesn take away A's current pain. Unless they can just manage to muddle through it with support from B and C? as they are friends? (06:16:51) Tim Clark: yes, trying, also letters like D are rare and elusive (06:18:53) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: no they do bobble about but rather randomly and without correct labelage. Would be really helpful if D had D's stamped or tagged on them visibly (06:21:55) Tim Clark: well yes, but that would be too easy (06:22:55) Tim Clark: and all the requiremets if A must like D and D must like A and they both need to know it makes it quite a challenge (06:25:30) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: yah another piece of the puzzle- meant to be the journey not the destination (06:25:34) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: well i think (06:30:18) Tim Clark: potentially, requirement 1 is hard, 2 and 3 are acchivable with lots of time, getting the time is also hard (06:33:39) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: nothing worthwhile in life is easy (06:34:05) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: and time is there whatever you do, and i suppose it actually depends what you do. (06:34:24) Elsa Morgan-Pientka: did A meet B and C randomly? then it can happen again! (06:36:35) Tim Clark: all 3 met randomly at about the same time, the issue arose that C was faster than A, so time is always an issue, A is slow